He  explained early  Sept he  was  needing  SOME funds  after  the  death expenses  so took  about  $9K worth to help pay her  hospital and  funeral bills.  Any  you  sent  some  family  gift? At least  flowers?  We  asked and he  said  flowers  for  a  nice  lady he married  when 16. Made  about 57-58 years. Any  you managed  that ?  Ghouls! 8