Married  long  enough  gets  to  point  where  who’s  med  apt  is more important  so  may need  another’s  changed.  Mon.  was my 3  hours  ENT maintenance  and today her spine  clinic  500 hr  check up /oil change.  X ray shows  fine  progress and  24  staples  pulled.   You do feel humbled  shaving  her legs  and  washing  her  feet.  Stuff  she’d  do before  even considering a first  date 45 years  back! Extreme  options?  which have  come  up a  few  times each we don’t  even  yet consider. Shooting  for Golden 50 and  take  what  comes.  Bet’s  right; roll the  bones  ( before  they break if possible).  8

Can only give you back JRR Tolkien uses English version of “Haste makes waste” always separated by common language.

“Ach, sss! Cautious, my precious! More haste less speed”.

PT’s constructing a bespoke article requires twice measure once cut, pin to to fit , cut again if a need. Thus “Easy by Easy”.

Lela Belle was a VIRGINIA Terrell, dad an MD, moved to SFO after U of VA to uncle also a pioneer in Med society there. Never married, lovely lady but none ever qualified it seemed. 20th Cent School Maarm , lived in avenues with brother the Purser on Matson Line Lurline sailed to Hawaii & Pacific . Cruised in summer using family pass and caused me to wish to see the stuff too. As poor Oklahoma Phillips opted to let Uncle Sam pay for it and call the shots as well. However Gramps 1st cousin Leon was OK Governor ’39 -’43 when graft and nepotism weren’t enough during Dust Bowl years. US 66 called us Golden West. 8

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leon_C._Phillips